How To Be Happy

By Cydne Buckley

Do you know what makes you happy? Is it money? Is it Your spouse? Is it your girlfriend/boyfriend? Is it your best friend? Who is it or are all these choices all wrong?

I will wager most of you said money? I will admit between being broke and having money that being broke finishes a bad second. Having a lot of money at your disposal relieves some of the stress in your life. Paying your bills like mortgage, car payments and household bills like food, phone, electric and heat is a relief.

Having a grand home is a fantastic feeling. This is what you look forward to all day long. A time to relax, unwind and enjoy in a soothing atmosphere. Our cars are a matter of concern too. One that runs very dependable and does not break ever two minutes. Especially on a deserted highway. That can sometimes be terrifying and very stressful..

Is the secret your spouse? Are you all giddy every time you are around them? I would like to thin so, but I doubt it. The divorce rate is so high many couples do not stay together very long. Besides most women work today and they get a chance to see the world from another angle. Could it be boyfriend/girlfriend? They change faster than your underwear. Best friends move very often and we forget each other.

If you are looking for the answer in the suggestion you will not find them. The secret is you and only you. It is nice to have a spouse, a new car, a great home, but these feelings are temporary at best. Upon arising in the morning look in the mirror and declare " I will be happy today no matter what obstacles come my way. I know problems will come up today, but I will overcome them. Nothing will deter me from being happy."

Take complete responsibility for what happens to you and you will eliminate the blame game. Do not play it, because it is self defeating and solves nothing. Start right now and take "responsibility" for your happiness.

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